So, my boyfriend(most likely soon to be ex) told me a couple days ago he didn’t know if he loved me and told me that he doesn’t know what love is, or even how to love. I have been in love and I know it isn’t what I have with him. This guy constantly reminds me of the favors he does for me, tells me what I SHOULD be doing in return for him, and gets upset when I don’t want to cuddle with him in the morning after he spends the previous night insulting me on every little flaw he perceives me to have. I accidentally break a shot glass last night and he flips his shit, and tells me I break everything I touch! He even goes over the list of things I have broken…who does that? Dicks and douchebags do that. What do guys do that love you? They kiss you on the forehead when you break something and help you pick it up. Someone that loves you does things for you without expecting anything in return, and because they are so sweet about it you are constantly thinking of nice things you can do for him. When he “insults” you it is to say how INSULTINGLY good looking you are, and you will catch him staring at you with a happy smile and he will often tell you how beautiful you are when you wakeup in the morning. THAT is love. I, unfortunately, have to put on an act for a little bit longer with this, because it is a finance thing and don’t have enough money to move out right now, but…trust me…I have my ways of silently getting him back ;)
